It’s not You, It’s Your damn phone
The world is going to deny this. It will go kicking and screaming the entire way. But I don’t care. There is no doubt in my mind that our use of cell phones has all but killed anything that might be described as fun in romantic relationships.
It isn’t that phones are inherently bad; it’s just our addictive use of them to contact the opposite sex. Yes, they are very reliable. They are instant. That is what we’re all about these days. But maybe its not what is worth having. It terrifies me to think that I can send my deepest thoughts to someone within seconds just by typing them. This is not how human interactions are supposed to work.
Forget general human interactions, let’s focus on courtship. In a courtship, no matter which gender you are, the fun is in the chase. It’s the mystery, the anticipation that brings…
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